Gay Chat Telephone
A man just does what he wants to and is open about it. Sometimes you feel like his mom. Things will not improve with time, he will always be a boy and he is looking for a mom, not a girlfriend.
This is the language someone uses when they are emotional and hurt and trying to feel better by putting you.
If he begs you not to use condoms or avoids the topic altogether there should be a you-shaped hole in the doorway as you run out of it. He gets angry and upset when you ask about his future.
He is vague. This should be a huge red flag. No one who is serious about another person has any reason to give vague answers to them or not explain something fully.
He may even have a string of baby mamas that he has to deal. His bad habits go unchecked. A man cares about self-improvement, a boy cares about what makes him happy in the moment.
He plays one-upmanship games. Do you want someone who feels they have to play games with you in order to have the relationship go their way or feel good about themselves?
One is admirable and one is something to stay away. Reblogged this on Simply Kathy.
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